Conflict between coworkers can arise for many reasons. The TKI Conflict Model by Thomas and Kilmann outlines five common responses to conflict:

  • Competition: Pursuing your own concerns at the expense of others often alienates others, which, over time, can damage relationships and make collaboration difficult.
  • Accommodation: Prioritizing others' concerns over your own may diminish your solutions and ideas, minimizing your impact in the workplace and causing others to overlook your full potential.
  • Avoidance: Ignoring both your own and others' concerns may feel easier, but unresolved issues can lead to resentment, emotional outbursts, or decisions you may regret.
  • Collaboration: Allowing time for equal insights from different perspectives is a commitment of all parties towards a mutually satisfactory outcome.
  • Compromising: Resolving an immediate conflict by addressing the issue directly but with limited depth. The result often leads to future conflict.

Different situations and conflicts often require a mix of responses. There is no single best approach to conflict.  The key to a successful conflict outcome is understanding your natural response and integrating other responses tailored to the situation.

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